After going through the notes I noticed a pattern of people always saying “____ looked so much better before” “why did they do that” “there was nothing wrong”,etc,etc. The thing that bugs me about these comments is they aren’t needed. The changes those people made and chose to promote are the results they felt were to there ideals, with that fact how is telling them they made a mistake helping there self of steem? I know it’s human nature to judge but some of you need to understand not everyone will see beauty the way you do.
If someone wants to improve themselves that’s there doing, unless they have a serious problem(i.e constantly changing things) you guys need to respect it’s the choice they made to make themselves happier not you. It’s not your body, thus it’s not your problem whether or not how they turned out wasn’t to your pleasing. It doesn’t affect you, it is basically starting the cycle of insecurities they had in the beginning.
I do know most of you aren’t trying to be rude, but it’s no different if someone took the time to loose weight and be comfortable with there body and people constantly telling them “you looked better before” “ew honestly she was way better before” “why did she do that :(“,etc,etc. All it really does it come of as hateful. Lets try to be a little nicer, since seeing things like this over and over make me not want to post is one of the reasons I stop since it gives me reasons not to post.